At one year and 2 months old, Dinky Aeisyah is finally showing her signs that she is going to walk soon! Yaayy! For some, it quite late but every babies has their own milestones right! But I already got some remarks that disturb me.
"Umur dah berapa? Dah boleh jalan?" Classic ones :P
"Anak umur berapa? Eh, sama lah tapi anak akak 10 bulan dah boleh jalan dah" with an excited tone
"Semua anak kita jalan bila dah 9 bulan"
"Anak umur berapa? Eh, sama lah tapi anak akak 10 bulan dah boleh jalan dah" with an excited tone
"Semua anak kita jalan bila dah 9 bulan"
I bet some of you do hear those lines before your child starts to walk. How inconsiderate! It's like, mommies try to outdo other mommies :P. I hope, I won't say that to others in future. It simply nasty.
5 comments:
he he... main sua2 dr jauh je aeisyah nie... comeiiii...
ala... semua mother yg tlebih xcited mmg mcm tu.. suka sgt compare achievement anak kita dgn anak org lain.. but i'm hoping i x tgolong dlm golongan tu.. he he...
tp, bila ada org ckp anak dia dah leh meniarap sdiri time pantang, i rasa mcm x betui je...
what do u think??? hu hu
-mama emma-
emma, itulah, ibu mana yg tak excited dgn anak sendiri kan. payah2 kita mengandung n beranak mestilah kita nak anak kita jd yg the best. Anak kawan i muda sebln dari Aeisyah tp dah jalan sebulan seblm raya lagi. Kawan i tak "qaypo" pun. Kita yg tengok plak tumpang excited. It's all about being humble. Tang meniarap masa pantang tu, anak saudara i ada sorang mcm tu. Baru 2 hari lahir dah pusing kepala kiri kanan. Siap dah tumbuh gigi lagi. badan pun keras macam bukan dalam pantang. Itulah milestone baby. Kita tak blh nak kata baby ni slow lah, baby ni pandai lah. Abang i sendiri tak pernah bable a word sampai 2 tahun. after 2thn, haa! semua perkataan yg keluar mmg sebutan betul dgn nahunya sekali.
alahai...bilerlah sarah nak mcm tue. i pun tak kisah org nak kater. even my mom pernah kata i dulu 9 bulan dah leh jalan, doesn't mean sarah pun kena mcm tue kan. as long as diorang sihat, tak kisah arr...
i pun tak sabo nak tunggu dia jalan...banyak tempat nak bawak.
ngee...
to mommysarah, don't worry, sooner or later sarah akan jalan.
just peringatan to mommies, kalau dah 2 tahun ke atas anak kita belum jalan lagi cepat2 bwk g jumpa paediatric sbb anak kawan hubby dah 2 thn blm jalan, doktor buat MRI scan yg reveal brain anak diaorg kurang membesar macam budak normal. Jd paed suggest bbrp xtvt yg rangsang brain baby tu mostly exercise and fisio.
yup yup yup..i pon harap i x tergolong dlm grup tu yg suka compare2.. altamis pon xde la cepat progress dia but i dun mind as long as dia sehat syukur alhamdulillah kan? :)
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