Showing posts with label Preggy: Chapter 2. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Preggy: Chapter 2. Show all posts

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Selamat hari Raya To All!

Selamat Hari Raya yer! I arrived at Bangi, my MIL's home yesterday. Mr Vediaz, Dinky Aeisyah and I departed early in the morning. We didn't hit the bed right after sahur! Usually, departing early in the morning is something that we don't do :) This year is a record to beat!

By the time of typing, the atmosphere is filling with the sound of illegal firecrackers. Including from our resident! My MIL is finishing her rendang daging, Melaka style. I half way finished my peeling with ground nut while eating pineapple tart! Mr Vediaz had finish boiling his ketupat bawang and ketupat Adabi.

The rendang! I tak masak, I amik gambar jer!

Jangan main-main tau, Mr Vediaz pandai anyam ketupat. I pun tak pandai!

This morning, three of us went to Prince Court Medical Centre. I'm transferring my labour over there because my gynae at Kuantan Specialist Hospital has advised to stay put at Bangi right to my 38 weeks of gestation. So, my cesarean operation is schedule on the sixth day of Raya, this coming 25th. Pray for my delivery kay!

Dinky Aeisyah, slimming down for raya!

Monday, September 14, 2009

Preparation For Raya

Well, most mom bloggers are talking about their Hari Raya preparation alas for me, there is not much on Hari Raya. I definitely don't prepare any baju raya. Mr Vediaz will be wearing his last years' baju melayu except for Dinky Aeisyah, she has few sets of new clothes just for Raya. Same as last year, I don't bake any cookies. I plainly order it but this year from my next neighbour.

Few days back, Mr Vediaz said that we haven't put up any pelita like other houses. I told him, we didn't have the time to search for pelita as we don't have time to shop in weekdays. This is because Mr Vediaz reaches home around 6pm or 6.30pm. Jangan kata nak keluar lepas Terawih, nak pergi bazar pun tak sempat. By Friday we will be going back to Bangi because this year is Mr Vediaz turns. After that I will be operated on the sixth Raya due to my pregnancy complication. Then, I'll be in confinement. Well, soo much for Raya this year. During Raya, my gynae, Dr. Suraya even suggested that I'm not advised to jalan-jalan soo much on Hari Raya, like balik kampung, in case I bleed in the middle of PLUS highway or better yet, kampung road. I better be around Bangi and KL for that matter.

Starting form last Friday, my gynae has given me a 6 days medical leave. So, today I'm at home, blogging and doing some laundry. If it is up to GH, I will be warded from the last two weeks up till 38 weeks of pregnancy. Apalah makcik nak buat? However, I need to go to my school to settle some paperwoks before Raya since I'm not coming back to school up to next year! Ngeng ngeng ngeng! My maternity leave will follow suit with the school holiday. Seronok gak makcik!

For the time being I'm basically preparing for my cesarean, mentally and physically. Praying for the best!

Monday, August 24, 2009

Fasting In Pregnancy

Today is the third day of Ramadhan. Well, for me, yesterday was the worst day ever. I missed my sahur and no doubt I was feeling dizzy by 1100 am, lethargy by 1200 pm and Dinky Boo 2 was kicking like he@# inside of me. Story short, I broke my fast at 200 pm. No doubt that fasting during you are pregnant is way different than your average self. For today's sahur, I took a plate of rice, 1 glass of full cream milk (can't stand to drink Anmum!), try to drink glucose water but the taste was YUCKY! and drank a lot of water whick made me couldn't move for 5 minutes due to overload! Hahaha! There are lot of few things to consider when you are pregnant and fasting. As for me:

  • Send Dinky Aeisyah to nursery so that I can rest a lot eventhough it is already school holiday! (kes mengada nih!)
  • Do my cooking after Zuhur prayer.
  • Do my sahur cooking before goes to sleep. Before this, I cooked in the wee hour of 430 am.
  • Get over the fact that I can buy some kuih muih instead of cooking it.
Well, the routine will last only till tomorrow. This Wednesday, three of us will be at KL for 4 days straight. Then the school opens as usual. I will be having extra classes for Year 6 students and this make me thing, how will I survive it...? My current plan is...
  • Sahur 500 am
  • Go to school 730 am
  • School ends 135 pm
  • Extra class starts 230 pm
  • Extra class ends 400 pm
  • Go to Bazar Ramadhan 420 pm (which is conveniently located in front of Dinky Aeisyah's nursery!)
  • Pick up Dinky Aeisyah 445 pm
  • Arrive home 500pm
  • Mr Vediaz gets home 615 pm
  • Break the fast 720 pm

If you want to know more about fasting in pregnancy, MommyLyna wrote a post about it. Do check it out.

Below are some articles that I have taken from BabyCenter Malaysia.

Fasting in pregnancy

Is it safe?

There are not many medical studies looking at the effects of fasting, but fasting appears to be generally safe in pregnancy.

Here’s what we do know:

  • Several studies looked at birth weights. They found no difference between the babies of mothers who fasted, and the babies of mothers who did not fast.
  • Some studies have looked at the baby’s IQ and found no differences.
  • Some studies took blood samples from fasting mothers and found that changes did occur. But the changes did not appear to harm the mothers or their babies. The studies compared the babies' birth weights and found no difference.


Women whose weight and lifestyle are generally healthy seem to cope well with fasting. And it may depend on several factors, such as:

  • What stage you are in your pregnancy – in general fasting in pregnancy is best tolerated by mothers in the second trimester. Mine is already third trimester!
  • Your general health before pregnancy and presence of any problems during the pregnancy.

Many – and probably the majority – of pregnant Muslim women choose to fast in Ramadan. Some surveys suggest up to 70 per cent of women will choose to fast. Particularly if you are in the second trimester of pregnancy when most mothers feel much better generally compared to the first and third trimesters, and you are healthy, you may certainly fast in Ramadan.

Nevertheless, Islam allows pregnant mothers not to fast if there are any concerns of effects of fasting on the individual mother or baby, provided the mother replaces the fast later, after the pregnancy is over. Those with diabetes in pregnancy may want to discuss it with their doctors first. Talk to your family, your doctor and a trusted religious authority to help you consider your options.

Is there anything I should do before fasting?

Plan ahead to make things easier during Ramadan. YUPP!

• Talk to your employer about managing your work during Ramadan. Some companies have their operational or working hours reduced during this time. (Extra class, oh extra class...)

• Start preparing early by doing shopping and errands before the fast.

What's the best way to break the fast?

Be sure to have a variety of healthy food and plenty to drink when you break your fast and at sahur.

  • Choose foods that release energy slowly - such as dates, beans and lentils – to break the fast.
  • Avoid sugary foods that will raise your blood sugar levels quickly – it will also drop quickly, and this can make you feel faint and dizzy.
  • Make sure you get plenty of protein from beans, nuts and well-cooked meat and eggs. Protein is needed to help your baby grow well.
  • Drink plenty of fluids overnight. You can become dehydrated especially when Ramadan falls in very hot weather.

Are there warning signs I should know about?

Contact your doctor if:

  • You feel dizzy faint, weak or tired. Rest for half an hour to see if you feel better. If there is no change, talk to your doctor.
  • You become nauseous or start vomiting.
  • There is a noticeable change in your baby's movement. If you feel that your baby is not moving around or kicking much, it is very important to talk with your doctor.
  • You become very thirsty or your urine becomes dark-coloured and strong-smelling. This is a sign of dehydration.
  • You notice contraction-like pains. This could be a sign of premature labour and you should talk to your doctor straight away.
  • You are not putting on weight, or are losing weight.
  • You develop a headache or other pains, or a fever.
How can I make fasting in pregnancy easier?
  • Plan your days so that you can take regular rests.
  • Avoid walking long distances and carrying anything heavy.
  • Keep cool – you can become dehydrated quickly and that's not good for you or your baby.
  • Ask the other women in your family for tips and suggestions about how to cope while you are pregnant.
  • Eat and drink wisely when you break your fast.

Generally, just take things easy and accept help when it is offered. Although the rest of your family and friends may stay up late, you may need to mark this Ramadan with more quiet, restful time.

Tips for a healthy fast

How can I make fasting easier?

If you fast, you will not be eating small meals every few hours, but you can still eat more than only two meals after breaking fast until sahur.

Having well-balanced, nutritious meals will help maintain your weight and prevent constipation, headache, indigestion , lethargy and heartburn – symptoms that are common during this period.

Is there any ideal way for pregnant women to break their fast?

There is no ideal meal plan that you should follow strictly, but try these tips on the best ways to break your fast.

  • Break your fast with three dates and juice, low-fat milk or yoghurt, followed by soup, preferably clear-based.
  • Dates and juices are good foods to bring low blood sugar levels back to normal.
Then eat a well-balanced meal that may include:
  • a plate of salad or ulam as a starter;
  • protein from chicken, meat or fish, or lentils, chickpeas or beans;
  • complex carbohydrates from brown rice and wholewheat bread;
  • and, a large amount of vegetables.
Do not forget to avoid high-fat meals to prevent weight gain, filling up on poor nutrients and indigestion.

Do I have to eat a sahur meal?

The sahur meal is one of the most important meals to consume during Ramadan to keep your energy levels up during the day. Do not skip this meal as it will provide you with important nutrients and the energy you need to get through the day. It will also decrease hunger symptoms, such as headache and sleepiness.

Your healthy sahur meal could include:

  • brown rice and wholewheat bread with kurma or a light curry;
  • bran or high-fibre cereal with low-fat or skimmed milk;
  • and, fruit, including dates and bananas.

Avoid too much tea at this time, which can make you dehydrated.

I love drinking coffee and/or tea after buka puasa; how can I substitute them?

Drink fresh fruit juices instead of fizzy drinks or coffee and tea. A fruit smoothie made with some milk, yoghurt, ice and fruit makes a refreshing drink and gives you plenty of your daily fruit allowance (Yayyy! Reason to buy smoothies!). A vegetable soup will give you several different vegetables, which will add vitamins, minerals and fibre to your diet.

What should I include and avoid in my diet during Ramadan?

To follow a healthy fast, keep in mind the above tips when eating and:
  • After dinner, relax for a while and then get up and move around. Participate in some light activity.
  • Avoid snacking late in the evening before sleeping, but be sure to take your sahur meal.
  • Drink plenty of water after buka puasa and before sahur to prevent dehydration.



Sunday, August 23, 2009

Missed Sahur

Alamak! Today Mr Vediaz and I missed our second day of sahur! Last night I had a stomach cramped that led to a visit to the loo :) So I slept at 200am in the morning. As for Mr Vediaz, I'm his human clock for sahur, I terbabas, dia double terbabas! Mr Vediaz warned me that if I do feel lethargic, dehydrated whatsoever, he wants me to break my fast. UMMMM...


Wednesday, August 19, 2009

My Precioussss......

Last Tuesday I got back late from my school. Then I discovered a parcel that had been dropped on the porch. Disappointed with how the parcel arrived, I quickly grabbed the parcel and brought it in. It was...


Yayy! my new set of cloth pad from Lunapads! I placed my order in early August because they were having a 24 hours of 15% sale. It's not much but I'd managed to save on shipping. This is a fraction of my postpartum plan. I already have 2 pieces of Maxi Pad from Lunapads that I bought from Miabambina. Since my budget was tight last year, I haven't fully converted myself to cloth pad user. This year, I got preggy with Dinky Boo 2, so no need to use pad for almost a year. Mr Vediaz had a big laugh when he saw the pictures taken.

Mr Vediaz : Ibu nak buat apa amik gambo pad baru nih?
Me : Put it in my blog loer!
Mr Vediaz : Mana ada orang citer pasal pad nih?
Me : Ada lah. Ibu lah orang nyer!



When I opened the envelope, all pads and liners were wrapped nicely. ME LIKE! Lunapads even jot down the wrapper's name on my billing bill. They are a lot of mix review on Lunapads. However, I love their design whereas I just need few base in a day but change the liners frequently. With this purchase, I bought a lot of bamboo liners because no doubt during the postpartum, I need more liners than usual. The bamboo liner are soo soft tau! At first, I was considering the pospartum set, however declined to buy that one. I read a post by the owner of Lunapads that it is better to invest on several heavy pads and lots of liners instead of pospartum pads. Investment in the long run she said.


Over jer I rasa tayang-tayang cloth pad ni!
But, nowadays a lot of mommies out there who are brave enough to try these cloth pad. A full review on Lunapads, homemade from Etsy, Malaysian versions, organic one and a lot more!

Personally, it doesn't smell, the menstrual is lighter and doesn't feel itchy at all. Washing it is a breeze. Just like cloth diaper. After this, I need to get myself this! After my postpartum, I might not need these pads because I'm planning to breastfeed Dinky Boo 2. Well, takpelah yer! As long as makcik heppi!

These are my new pads (as requested by mama shmontel *wink*). The left one is pistachio paisley. I believe, Pleats does have this print also. The right one is cupcakes. Cute kan!



Thursday, August 13, 2009

It's Confirm...

My gynae had confirm that I'm having Placenta Previa Posterior Type 3. Alhamdulillah that I'm not experiencing any bleeding yet. I was advice to be aware of any blood staining when I reach my 33 weeks.

For the time being, there is no chances that I can have a normal labour due to my condition. My gynae is hoping that my pregnancy will last to at least 35 weeks because both pediatrics at the panel hospital that I'm visiting will not accept a baby that is born less than 35 weeks. However, Mr Vediaz and I are very worry with all the H1N1 cases at Kuantan. Too many cases lah. Even Pahang Royals are also got infected!

Went to Klinik Kesihatan last Tuesday. The doctor was so worried and immediately called her specialist. Her specialist informed me that for my condition, I am advised to be warded when I'm 34 weeks pregnant. It is GH's protocol when dealing with high risk of Placenta Previa. Tapikan doktor, anak murid saya exam UPSR 35 minggu. Camne yek? Dr Nor'Ainzan of Klinik Kesihatan also asked about my plan of delivery. I was like, "Dunno yet".

Mr Vediaz and I are also calculating that I might deliver the baby before Hari Raya. Hope not! Kalau tak, I pantang meleleh lah air liur tengok orang makan! But Mr Vediaz says, "Takpelah, takkan nak tunggu bleeding baru nak ceaser. Dah full term, kita labour jer". But, I want to celebrate Hari Raya loer! I want to see Dinky Aeisyah's celebrate Hari Raya for the second time.

Right now, I have finished packing my hospital bag but few items are still needed to be bought. Prepared my PISA since I don't know how the breastfeeding will be like. Washed my Brestfriend Nursing Pillow. Apa lagi yer? I'll update with the latest new and we'll see how it goes :)

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Lunapads....

He he he, I'm entering a Lunapads Giveaways which will ended soon. The giveaways will ended this 9.00am morning! Ni tengah taip laju2 because the clock is TICKING! Big thanks to Kaki Shopping who is organising this giveaway.

The lucky winner can choose one of the following:

One (1) Lunapads Sampler pack, comprising:

  • 1 Mini Pantyliner
  • 1 Maxi Pad
  • 1 Maxi Liner
  • 1 Maxi Wing Liner
  • OR

    One (1) Heavy Pad & Liner (suitable for postpartum and heavy flow use)

    I'm eyeing the Heavy Pad & Liner because I'm preparing for my second postpartum session at my mom's this October. Baru 7 months preggy dah plan macam2. My mom pun naik tak paham dah, cloth diaper lah, cloth pad lah...Rilek yer mak!

    Wednesday, July 8, 2009

    What Is Placenta Previa?

    Why on earth do I mention about this medical condition after haven't posting anything on the blog for the past of two long months. Well, I haven't get my GROOVE yet! To tell you all the truth, I'm practically exhausted on everyday. In my fourth month of pregnancy, I noticed something different with this one. I feel lethargy most of the time. Nak jalan pun rasa berat semacam, as if I'm already eight months pregnant. Then, last two weeks I had a diarrhoea and I noticed some blood spotting. After my regular check up, my gynae confirmed that I have a LOW LYING PLACENTA. On my next appoinment, on 28weeks, my gynae will rule out wether I'm having placenta previa or not.


    Taken from Mayoclinic

    Definitions

    Placenta previa is an uncommon pregnancy complication that can cause excessive bleeding before or during delivery.

    Soon after conception, the placenta begins to form. This oval, flat organ provides oxygen and nutrients to your growing baby and removes waste products from your baby's blood. It attaches to the wall of your uterus, and your baby's umbilical cord arises from it, forming a vital connection between you and your baby.

    Placenta previa occurs when the placenta attaches to the lower part of your uterine wall, partially or totally covering your cervix. When the cervix starts to open in preparation for labor, the placenta is detached, which can trigger severe vaginal bleeding. Thankfully, placenta previa is nearly always detected before a woman or her baby is in significant danger.

    Complications

    If you have placenta previa, your health care provider will monitor you and your baby carefully to reduce the risk of these serious complications:

    • Bleeding. One of the biggest concerns with placenta previa is the risk of severe vaginal bleeding (hemorrhage) during labor, delivery or the first few hours after delivery. The bleeding can be heavy enough to cause maternal shock or even death.
    • Premature birth. Severe bleeding may prompt an emergency C-section before your baby is full term.
    • Placenta accreta. If the placenta implants too deeply and firmly into the uterine wall, the placenta may not spontaneously detach from the uterus after delivery — an uncommon condition known as placenta accreta. This can result in severe bleeding and, often, the need for surgical removal of the uterus (hysterectomy).




    Symptoms

    Painless, bright red vaginal bleeding in the second half of pregnancy is the main sign of placenta previa.

    Although some women have light bleeding or spotting during the first trimester or early second trimester, bleeding associated with placenta previa usually occurs near the end of the second trimester or the beginning of the third. The amount of bleeding may range from light to heavy. And it usually stops, but it nearly always recurs days or weeks later. Some women who have placenta previa experience contractions with the bleeding.

    Types of placenta previa
    There are three specific types of placenta previa:

    • Total placenta previa. In total placenta previa, the placenta completely covers the cervix.
    • Partial placenta previa. In partial placenta previa, the placenta partly covers the cervix.
    • Marginal placenta previa. In marginal placenta previa, the placenta approaches the edge of the cervix.

    Low-lying placenta is a term used to describe a placenta that lies low in the uterus but isn't quite close enough to the cervix to qualify as marginal placenta previa. This condition usually doesn't cause signs or symptoms during pregnancy, but it may cause bleeding after delivery.

    When to see a doctor
    If you're pregnant, seek regular prenatal care. If you experience any vaginal bleeding during your second or third trimester, call your health care provider right away. Your health care provider will likely do an ultrasound to determine the source of the bleeding.

    If you've been diagnosed with placenta previa, make sure that any health care provider you see during pregnancy is aware of the condition. Examining the cervix can lead to heavy bleeding.

    Wednesday, April 15, 2009

    Introducing...

    Introducing...Dinky Boo Number 2!...taken at 11 weeks and the size was 52mm. Keciknyer! I did the ultrasound when I was referring my pregnancy case to Dr Suraya at KSH, Kuantan. Doakan kesihatan for the second ones. Finger crossed...Insya-allah...

    Wednesday, April 8, 2009

    Buku Merah Part II

    I haven't done the buku merah yet...TENG TENG TENG...Last week's Monday, I went to a Klinik Desa near my school, hoping that I can get my Buku Merah done.

    Nurse 1: Cikgu mengajar kat SK yadaa yadaa yerk?
    Me: A'ah...
    Nurse 2: Cikgu nak datang check up ker?
    Me: Saya datang nak buat buku. Sempat tak?
    Nurse 2: Cikgu duduk kat sini yer?
    Me: Tak, saya duduk kat yadaa yadaa.
    Nurse 2: Kami tak buat buku alamat lain.
    Me: ????

    Since my timetable on Monday is free from 815 till 1105, I drove to Klinik Kesihatan near my house. I arrived there like 930am.

    Nurse 3: Datang nak buat apa?
    Me: ??? Nak buat Buku Merah.
    Nurse 3: Buku Merah yg lama ada bawak tak?
    Me: Ni bukunya. (passing the book down). Saya ada kelas pukul 1105, boleh push nama saya tak? (By the time of speaking, the waiting area was empty)
    Nurse 3: Tak sempat, buku ni banyak nak kena tulis. Cikgu datang pukul 900 esok lah. Nak buat buku kena datang pukul 900.
    Me:??? Takkan tak sempat?
    Nurse 3: Nanti lab tutup.
    Me: ???
    Nurse 3: Kalau nak, cikgu boleh tinggalkan buku lama. Saya tulis dulu. Cikgu cuti, boleh datang.
    Me:???

    Tak kuasa nak pikir panjang, I left my previous Buku Merah there. I haven't got the chance to do the book yet because, last Sunday, I was at my in-laws. Payah benor nak buat buku merah ni for the second ones. Tapi takpelah...

    Sunday, March 29, 2009

    Happy Sundays

    Soo much for a Sunday weekend. The three of us woke up late. Had leftover Big Apple Donuts as breakfast. Macam omputih plak kan! In the morning, I had planned to go to a Klinik Desa nearby to do my buku merah. I arrived like 1100am and told the nurses at the counter about doing the book.

    Nurse 1: "Apsal lambat sangat? Datang esok pagi lah, pukul sembilan"
    Nurse 2: "Anak dah berapa?"
    Me: "Yang ni kedua"
    Nurse 2: "Baru dua, tak ramai pun"
    Nurse 1: "Tak sempat, dah lambat"

    There was like a patient who was waiting at the wating area, a mom who was weighing her daughter, an aunty who was also at the counter and another mom inside the consultation room and there was 3 nurses at that time???

    Nurse 1: "Esok je lah"
    Me: "Esok saya kerja"
    Nurse 2: "Ari ni tak kerja ke?"
    Me: "Saya kerja kat Pahang"
    Nurse 2: "Dah tu? Duduk kat mana?"
    Me: "Taman Geliga"
    Nurse 1: "Eh, kami tak cover taman awak, taman awak duduk tu kena pergi Klinik Kesihatan, bukan Klinik Desa"

    ??? Alahai nurse...saya nak buat buku merah jer...

    Then Mr Vediaz drove me to Klinik Kesihatan Kuala Kemaman. They also asked me to come early in the morning, like 900am. I asked the nurses there whether I can come after lunch hour, they said that the lab will be closed by lunch???

    Conclusion, will do my buku merah at the Klinik Desa nearby my school, at least I'm teaching their children. Hopefully the nurses at that clinic will have more compassion towards me...


    Then, the three of us had our lunch at a small "kedai makan" at Kuala Kemaman. They have the best "ikan panggang". YUMMY! Dinky Aeisyah ate her kari tenggiri sampai licin, I tell you! Afterwards, headed off to Sen Heng to get a new slow cooker. The one that I borrowed from my emak is unusable because the pot was broken.


    In the evening, my energy level was at a reasonable rate, so I started to make dinner. It has been ages since I've cooked. Tak larat tau! I cooked "gulai ayam lemak cili api" and "sambal ikan masin kurau". The sambal is daa best sambal ever!


    Well, dah lewat ni. Need to sign off. Ciao!

    Dinky Aeisyah posed at the kitchen when I was cooking dinner.

    YUMMY!

    Saturday, March 28, 2009

    Preggie?

    As the title says...and a lot of mommies who are blogging are being preggy nowadays, I pun officially announced that I'm also expecting! That explains why I didn't update the blog for more than a month. I'm having night sickness (ada ke?) most of the time and the vomiting course doesn't seems to slow at all. I also can't drink plain water most of the time even my body needs it because it makes me feel nausea...this pregnancy is not what I have expected based from the time I was carrying Dinky Aeisyah. The first one, I vomitted like twice a day, but with this one it varies, thrice, sometimes 4 times a day, there are also 5. Tak tahan makcik...

    I haven't done the 'buku merah' yet. Plan to that tomorrow. Harap-harapnya esok I larat lah nak pegi. Yesterday, I had my case referred to Kuantan Specialist. I picked out Dr. Suraya whom delivered Dinky Aeisyah. My next appoinment will be in April and I have to gulp down 'air gula'. YUCKY! The most horrible thing that they done to a pregnant woman! Thanks to my Ayah who have Diebetes (Ayah, jangan marah ye!). Since Diabetes is hereditary, I am bound to the test for every pregnancy...