I guess that is how a toddler reacts when he or her demands are not being met. Alahai...anak dara dah besar...
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Toddler Tantrums
I guess that is how a toddler reacts when he or her demands are not being met. Alahai...anak dara dah besar...
Monday, August 24, 2009
Fasting In Pregnancy
Today is the third day of Ramadhan. Well, for me, yesterday was the worst day ever. I missed my sahur and no doubt I was feeling dizzy by 1100 am, lethargy by 1200 pm and Dinky Boo 2 was kicking like he@# inside of me. Story short, I broke my fast at 200 pm. No doubt that fasting during you are pregnant is way different than your average self. For today's sahur, I took a plate of rice, 1 glass of full cream milk (can't stand to drink Anmum!), try to drink glucose water but the taste was YUCKY! and drank a lot of water whick made me couldn't move for 5 minutes due to overload! Hahaha! There are lot of few things to consider when you are pregnant and fasting. As for me:
- Send Dinky Aeisyah to nursery so that I can rest a lot eventhough it is already school holiday! (kes mengada nih!)
- Do my cooking after Zuhur prayer.
- Do my sahur cooking before goes to sleep. Before this, I cooked in the wee hour of 430 am.
- Get over the fact that I can buy some kuih muih instead of cooking it.
- Sahur 500 am
- Go to school 730 am
- School ends 135 pm
- Extra class starts 230 pm
- Extra class ends 400 pm
- Go to Bazar Ramadhan 420 pm (which is conveniently located in front of Dinky Aeisyah's nursery!)
- Pick up Dinky Aeisyah 445 pm
- Arrive home 500pm
- Mr Vediaz gets home 615 pm
- Break the fast 720 pm
If you want to know more about fasting in pregnancy, MommyLyna wrote a post about it. Do check it out.
Below are some articles that I have taken from BabyCenter Malaysia.
Fasting in pregnancy
Is it safe?
There are not many medical studies looking at the effects of fasting, but fasting appears to be generally safe in pregnancy.
Here’s what we do know:
- Several studies looked at birth weights. They found no difference between the babies of mothers who fasted, and the babies of mothers who did not fast.
- Some studies have looked at the baby’s IQ and found no differences.
- Some studies took blood samples from fasting mothers and found that changes did occur. But the changes did not appear to harm the mothers or their babies. The studies compared the babies' birth weights and found no difference.
Women whose weight and lifestyle are generally healthy seem to cope well with fasting. And it may depend on several factors, such as:
- What stage you are in your pregnancy – in general fasting in pregnancy is best tolerated by mothers in the second trimester. Mine is already third trimester!
- Your general health before pregnancy and presence of any problems during the pregnancy.
Nevertheless, Islam allows pregnant mothers not to fast if there are any concerns of effects of fasting on the individual mother or baby, provided the mother replaces the fast later, after the pregnancy is over. Those with diabetes in pregnancy may want to discuss it with their doctors first. Talk to your family, your doctor and a trusted religious authority to help you consider your options.
Is there anything I should do before fasting?
Plan ahead to make things easier during Ramadan. YUPP!
• Talk to your employer about managing your work during Ramadan. Some companies have their operational or working hours reduced during this time. (Extra class, oh extra class...)
• Start preparing early by doing shopping and errands before the fast.
What's the best way to break the fast?
Be sure to have a variety of healthy food and plenty to drink when you break your fast and at sahur.
- Choose foods that release energy slowly - such as dates, beans and lentils – to break the fast.
- Avoid sugary foods that will raise your blood sugar levels quickly – it will also drop quickly, and this can make you feel faint and dizzy.
- Make sure you get plenty of protein from beans, nuts and well-cooked meat and eggs. Protein is needed to help your baby grow well.
- Drink plenty of fluids overnight. You can become dehydrated especially when Ramadan falls in very hot weather.
Are there warning signs I should know about?
Contact your doctor if:
- You feel dizzy faint, weak or tired. Rest for half an hour to see if you feel better. If there is no change, talk to your doctor.
- You become nauseous or start vomiting.
- There is a noticeable change in your baby's movement. If you feel that your baby is not moving around or kicking much, it is very important to talk with your doctor.
- You become very thirsty or your urine becomes dark-coloured and strong-smelling. This is a sign of dehydration.
- You notice contraction-like pains. This could be a sign of premature labour and you should talk to your doctor straight away.
- You are not putting on weight, or are losing weight.
- You develop a headache or other pains, or a fever.
- Plan your days so that you can take regular rests.
- Avoid walking long distances and carrying anything heavy.
- Keep cool – you can become dehydrated quickly and that's not good for you or your baby.
- Ask the other women in your family for tips and suggestions about how to cope while you are pregnant.
- Eat and drink wisely when you break your fast.
Generally, just take things easy and accept help when it is offered. Although the rest of your family and friends may stay up late, you may need to mark this Ramadan with more quiet, restful time.
Tips for a healthy fast
How can I make fasting easier?
If you fast, you will not be eating small meals every few hours, but you can still eat more than only two meals after breaking fast until sahur.
Having well-balanced, nutritious meals will help maintain your weight and prevent constipation, headache, indigestion , lethargy and heartburn – symptoms that are common during this period.
Is there any ideal way for pregnant women to break their fast?
- Break your fast with three dates and juice, low-fat milk or yoghurt, followed by soup, preferably clear-based.
- Dates and juices are good foods to bring low blood sugar levels back to normal.
- a plate of salad or ulam as a starter;
- protein from chicken, meat or fish, or lentils, chickpeas or beans;
- complex carbohydrates from brown rice and wholewheat bread;
- and, a large amount of vegetables.
Do I have to eat a sahur meal?
The sahur meal is one of the most important meals to consume during Ramadan to keep your energy levels up during the day. Do not skip this meal as it will provide you with important nutrients and the energy you need to get through the day. It will also decrease hunger symptoms, such as headache and sleepiness.
Your healthy sahur meal could include:
- brown rice and wholewheat bread with kurma or a light curry;
- bran or high-fibre cereal with low-fat or skimmed milk;
- and, fruit, including dates and bananas.
Avoid too much tea at this time, which can make you dehydrated.
I love drinking coffee and/or tea after buka puasa; how can I substitute them?
Drink fresh fruit juices instead of fizzy drinks or coffee and tea. A fruit smoothie made with some milk, yoghurt, ice and fruit makes a refreshing drink and gives you plenty of your daily fruit allowance (Yayyy! Reason to buy smoothies!). A vegetable soup will give you several different vegetables, which will add vitamins, minerals and fibre to your diet.
What should I include and avoid in my diet during Ramadan?
- After dinner, relax for a while and then get up and move around. Participate in some light activity.
- Avoid snacking late in the evening before sleeping, but be sure to take your sahur meal.
- Drink plenty of water after buka puasa and before sahur to prevent dehydration.
Sunday, August 23, 2009
My Rootote
So, I ordered these three things from Tinytapir and it arrived yesterday at a courier company. I had to picked the parcel this evening because when the delivery boy came, I was upstairs and didn't hear his screams!
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Mine is slightly expensive than the ones that I bought for my sisters! Sorry girls, I'm the one who fork out the money, so I deserved something fancy than both of you! Let me enlighten you of Rootote. It is from Japan and it is all about ecobag. The company, Superplanning, has a big range of bags. The one that I bought is from the Medium size of basic line. The basic line itself has Grande size, Tall size and Plain. Then, they have this Thermo-Keeper that you can use to bring cold items such as soft drinks. There are still much more.
Rootote also has a Roo Carriage. It fits my medium size tote. This is to help your tote to be much more organized. Yeah! I can even visualise my new tote having this inside!
To Salwa and Nadia, Happy Belated Birthday! Sorry that the presents are way overdue. I hope you like the tote eventhough they are still with me at Kemaman. At least you both know what you are getting!
Missed Sahur
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Ramadhan Mubarak
Still remember my fisrt sahur with Mr Vediaz...:) We were not even dating yet at that time. He stayed at my parents' house on that last day of Syaaban. Both of us couldn't remember why he crashed at the house. My emak cooked nasi goreng for that first sahur. Kesian Mr Vediaz sahur sorang2, I pun teman lah dia sahur kat guest room tu. Nostalgic betul! Past forward 5 years later, I'm the one whom get up early and cook something for the sahur. When we first got married, I was terrified a bit because it always my emak whom prepare the sahur. Then, it's my turn plak! Sahlah anak emak ni pemalas!
Tapi confirm lagi rajin than my brothers. My elder bro is building his stomach! My first younger bro is size does matter! My youngest bro is building his wealth. Entah bila lah nak kaya tu? My younger twins sister pun ringan tulang (puji sket!). As usual, I'm the bossy one because I'm the first daughter of the house!
This year of Ramadhan will be the same as last years except that I'm expecting. Mr Vediaz isn't very keen on me trying to fast because he is afraid with my condition right now. But today I'm fasting, hopefully everything will be okay.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
My Precioussss......
Yayy! my new set of cloth pad from Lunapads! I placed my order in early August because they were having a 24 hours of 15% sale. It's not much but I'd managed to save on shipping. This is a fraction of my postpartum plan. I already have 2 pieces of Maxi Pad from Lunapads that I bought from Miabambina. Since my budget was tight last year, I haven't fully converted myself to cloth pad user. This year, I got preggy with Dinky Boo 2, so no need to use pad for almost a year. Mr Vediaz had a big laugh when he saw the pictures taken.
Mr Vediaz : Ibu nak buat apa amik gambo pad baru nih?
Me : Put it in my blog loer!
Mr Vediaz : Mana ada orang citer pasal pad nih?
Me : Ada lah. Ibu lah orang nyer!
When I opened the envelope, all pads and liners were wrapped nicely. ME LIKE! Lunapads even jot down the wrapper's name on my billing bill. They are a lot of mix review on Lunapads. However, I love their design whereas I just need few base in a day but change the liners frequently. With this purchase, I bought a lot of bamboo liners because no doubt during the postpartum, I need more liners than usual. The bamboo liner are soo soft tau! At first, I was considering the pospartum set, however declined to buy that one. I read a post by the owner of Lunapads that it is better to invest on several heavy pads and lots of liners instead of pospartum pads. Investment in the long run she said.
Over jer I rasa tayang-tayang cloth pad ni! But, nowadays a lot of mommies out there who are brave enough to try these cloth pad. A full review on Lunapads, homemade from Etsy, Malaysian versions, organic one and a lot more!
Personally, it doesn't smell, the menstrual is lighter and doesn't feel itchy at all. Washing it is a breeze. Just like cloth diaper. After this, I need to get myself this! After my postpartum, I might not need these pads because I'm planning to breastfeed Dinky Boo 2. Well, takpelah yer! As long as makcik heppi!
These are my new pads (as requested by mama shmontel *wink*). The left one is pistachio paisley. I believe, Pleats does have this print also. The right one is cupcakes. Cute kan!
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Cervical Cancer Vaccine
My gynae explained that married women also need to take the vaccine because it can protect us from HPV (Human Papillomavirus) related diseeses. The vaccine can protect the married brood for 70% and the rest of 30% chances of getting the cervical cancer can be protected by having the annual pap smear. Yes ladies! Read up, we still need to perform our pap smear.
The expensive ones is Gardasil which cost you RM400 per jab and you need to take 3 jabs altogether. So, total will be RM1200! A hefty sum but there is a cheaper vaccine if I'm not mistaken. I think the other vaccine cost around RM600 for 3 jabs. A lot cheaper though. My gynae also informed me most of her patient that took the vaccine were Chinese. Kalau Malays, dia kata berbuih mulut nak suruh buat pap smear! Since my gynae is a doctor at a private hospital, the cost will be higher. Maybe we can ask around the GH if they can offer us a better price for the vaccine.
Mr Vediaz said that as long as I do my regular pap smear, I will OK. But I'm considering this vaccine after my labour because I know one of my relative got a few genital warts infection and this was because of that HPV. Due to the warts, she had a miscarriage and she had to undergo a small operation to remove those warts.
So, the conclusion is, I will take the vaccine but after I labour Dinky Boo 2!
Thursday, August 13, 2009
It's Confirm...
Went to Klinik Kesihatan last Tuesday. The doctor was so worried and immediately called her specialist. Her specialist informed me that for my condition, I am advised to be warded when I'm 34 weeks pregnant. It is GH's protocol when dealing with high risk of Placenta Previa. Tapikan doktor, anak murid saya exam UPSR 35 minggu. Camne yek? Dr Nor'Ainzan of Klinik Kesihatan also asked about my plan of delivery. I was like, "Dunno yet".
Mr Vediaz and I are also calculating that I might deliver the baby before Hari Raya. Hope not! Kalau tak, I pantang meleleh lah air liur tengok orang makan! But Mr Vediaz says, "Takpelah, takkan nak tunggu bleeding baru nak ceaser. Dah full term, kita labour jer". But, I want to celebrate Hari Raya loer! I want to see Dinky Aeisyah's celebrate Hari Raya for the second time.
Right now, I have finished packing my hospital bag but few items are still needed to be bought. Prepared my PISA since I don't know how the breastfeeding will be like. Washed my Brestfriend Nursing Pillow. Apa lagi yer? I'll update with the latest new and we'll see how it goes :)
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
This Is How I Eat!
Sunday, August 9, 2009
Dinky Aeisyah And Her Sleeping Sack
Back to Dinky Aeisyah, she can now unzipp herself out from her sleeping sack. I had to train her not to unzipp because if her does that, I will put her back inside the sack. It happenened last month and she practically staged a crying act whenever I tucked her to bed. Alah, tilam dia sebelah tilam I jer! Nangis sakan bila kena pakai sack tu. Mr Vediaz will succumb to her cries whereas I buat poyo jer. Dinky Aeisyah will yelled for her abah when I took out her sack.
Mr Vediaz : Ala ibu, Aeisyah dah big girl tu. Dia dah tak nak pakai 'karung' dia. Dia nak pakai selimut. (Muka nak memujuk yer!)
Me : Pakai selimut alamatnya tak pakai lah! Tidur punya lasak, Aeisyah ke mana, selimut pun ke mana. TAK BOLEH!
When a wife is right, she will always right! Hehehe...So, right now, Dinky Aeisyah still sleeps in her sleeping sack. I tell her that she can unzipp her sleeping sack only in the morning, night time can not lah my dear. She seems to agrees with that term. FUHHH!
Play Area
Mr Vediaz also like to add another thing to the play area...
Well, this is the real IKEA! It is from Duktig line and will cost around 65pound! Around RM340, but a lot cheaper that Little Tikes! Don't know this will be available at our IKEA. Kalau I tau, I kirim jer kat Mak Chu I who got back from UK last month...SIGHHH...